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Oral Sex - Cunnilingus
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How to perform oral sex on a woman...

Cunnilingus, being licked, feels wonderful to women. There are a
few women who don't find it pleasant, but most women just love
it—if you do it right! The problem here is that according to
women, a lot of men don't know how to give a woman pleasurable
cunnilingus. So strap on your safety belts as we tell you what
women really like.

An important thing to understand about women is that a lot of
women are shy and kind of embarrassed about how their body looks.
If the woman you're with isn't comfortable with her body, be
reassuring but also dim or turn off the lights. This will help
your partner to concentrate on what you're doing to her instead
of worrying about how she looks to you.

After a nice long foreplay session, try moving down to your
lover's inner thighs. This is one of a woman's most sensitive and
erotic spots, although it is also one of the ones she worries the
most about, appearance wise. Try gently kissing her inner thighs,
and licking them with a dry, pointed tongue. Light nibbles are
good, too. A few women are too ticklish to enjoy this. Don't
force the issue or she'll be a nervous wreck instead of
passionate. When you first move to your partner's vagina, do not
do anything sudden. Try licking gently up and down her lips, not
opening them, just licking them and maybe a very gentle nibble.

After a couple minutes, you can suck on them but never be rough
or suck too hard. Don't go further yet unless she urges you to or
until you start hearing her breathing change or little moaning
sounds.

Now you move on to the hood of skin covering her clitoris. That
is the little nub of flesh to the front her her vagina. If a
woman is excited, her clitoris will be hard. If she is not
totally excited, it will be soft and very small. If it is not
totally hard, or you are not sure, suck gently on the hood over
her clit, not yet touching the clit itself. You can use a finger
from one hand to stroke her vaginal lips. If you feel moisture on
them, you can very gently insert just the very tip of your finger
between her lips as you suck over her clit. After a little
while—and don't rush—gently push back the skin so that the
clitoris is exposed. Be very gentle with it, there are a lot of
nerve endings in this piece of flesh. Gently suck it—VERY gently.

Alternate sucking with soft licking with the tip of your tongue.


Now here are a few things you can try in any random order you
like and as she likes:

Try licking her clit in fast little circles
Insert your finger into her vagina
Try licking in figure eight motions
Use both hands to hold her legs apart
Move the finger inside her like you were stirring a very small
cup of coffee
Put a second finger inside of her and spread the two fingers
gently apart, then together, over and over
Lick her clit in a short, fast up and down motion
Push her legs into the air and hold them there

You can try other things, too. Make sure to pay attention,
because at some point, your partner will become more excited. She
may grab your head or start pulling your hair. If she pulls your
head toward her, try not to change what you are doing with your
tongue any more. A lot of men think that when a woman reaches her
peak of excitement just before she climaxes that this would be a
great time to add variety. Don't. This is a great time to keep
doing exactly what turned her on the most. Something to note here
is that if a man starts to orgasm and the physical stimulation
that got him there is removed, he will probably continue his
orgasm. This is not the case for women. If you stop licking her
before she is done, her orgasm will stop in the middle, and she
will be very, very frustrated.

Never use teeth on a woman unless it is gentle enough not to
hurt. Use a gentle touch always, unless requested otherwise. Be
sure to pay attention so you'll know which things you did that
she liked the best. A man that gives great cunnilingus or oral
sex to a woman can bring her her greatest sexual pleasure.


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