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The Heart and Soul of Masturbation
Jon Gammon


Masturbation is defined as any kind of sexual stimulation that
does not include intercourse. There are many ways that we humans
pleasure ourselves, touching the erogenous zones in a way to
enhance sexual feelings and sensations. We make use of our hands,
breath, feathers, bondage gear, and yes sex toys, to make
masturbation interesting. There is no right and wrong, just the
experimentation of exploring your body, and learning what your
body likes and dislikes. For most, women have found that
masturbation is their only way to achieve an orgasm, and they
rely on this form of stimulation to achieve this sensation.


Mutual masturbation, in which couples stimulate each other, is a
very rewarding experience for woman especially. They are able to
get to their orgasmic place more easily and not have to focus so
hard on the intercourse to get her the rest of the way there. If
oral sex or masturbation is used before the actual intercourse,
the "Wham Bamm Thank You Mam", stereotype can be a little less
trying for the man, who gets off way before the woman ever really
got started.


Many couples, that wants to save intercourse for marriage, use
masturbation and oral sex as a means to satisfy them selves
without all the mess of intercourse getting in the way. Couples
are able to explore each other and learn how to fantasize in very
creative ways. This form of outercourse (everything that is
sexual and pleasurable without the intercourse) is a great means
of achieving sexual pleasures without having intercourse.


Jon Gammon is the Author and Webmaster at Sex Toy Alley, visit
the website to find out more information on the wonderful world
of sex.
http://www.sextoyalley.com/


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