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Kissing Techniques


The key to good kissing is creativity and listening to your
partners cues. Creativity speaks for itself. Creativity includes
trying new ideas, and/or new combinations of movements, locations
and moods. Listening refers to paying attention to your partner's
verbal and nonverbal signals. Is your partner excited? Is your
partner in an aroused mood?

Remember that a sensual kiss can often be very slow in it's
motion. The slowness can actually raise the sexual tension by
'pacing' the sexual encounter.

Routines sometimes can act to diminish the excitement, because
the other person already knows exactly what will come next. In
that way, a 'first' with someone new is always exciting, because
you simply have no idea about what to expect. Therefore, in an
effort to help people 'break' old patterns a set of different
types of kisses have been collected.



Some Different Types of Kissing -


Suspenseful kiss. The type that has a long buildup and both
parties wonder when the other one will start to lean over… or if
the other person is even interested.


Elongated kiss- this one involves a bit of mouth movement
(opening and closing). With the use of your tongue. Imagine
sucking on your arm, while using your tongue to gently pull in
the skin, and then push the skin back onto the arm. The movements
are best when slow, steady and precise.


Slobbery kiss. This is excellent for cunnilingus and fellatio.
The saliva acts as lubrication. However, at all other times,
unless specifically requested, avoid the slobbery kiss.


Wetting lips kiss. Run your tongue along the contours of their
lips.


Sucking kiss. Exactly that. Suck on their lips. Upper lip kiss.
Only kiss the upper part of the lip.


Lower lip kiss. Only kiss the lower part of the lip. The nibbling
kiss. Literally, nibble on their lips and nibble/kiss all over
their cheeks and ears.


Tongue sucker kiss. Literally, suck on your partner's tongue as
if it was a finger.


Teeth cleaner kiss. While kissing, run your tongue along the
inside of their mouth. Explore the structure of your partner's
teeth. Feel each tooth (within reason), one by one. By following
each grove, note the texture (s) of the tooth.


Tongue player kiss. Use your tongue to play with their tongue.
Mouth explorer kiss. Use your tongue to explore the rest of your
partner's mouth. What does the inside of your partner's cheek
feel like, the back of the lips? Does it feel dry, hard, of firm?


Public kiss. Kiss your partner in public, kiss your partner in
private.


Motion kiss. Change kissing speeds. Begin super slow, and then
let yourself speed up. The beginning part of the kiss should last
at least 10 minutes, then after your partner can not stand it any
longer speed up. Then, do not forget to slow your speed down. Too
much of anything is not a good thing. Frequent subtle
alterations, keeps the person guessing as to what will come next.


Loud kiss. Kiss your partner while making loud kissing noises.


Silent kiss. Kiss your partner without making any noise - best to
practice when someone is around and you do not want to be heard.


Copycat kiss. Kiss your partner the exact way that she/he kisses
you. Follow your partner's lead.


Open eyed kiss. Maintain eye contact during kissing.


Closed eye kiss. Close your eyes and imagine how this kiss will
lead to the best sexual encounter ever imaginable.


Lick kiss. While kissing, use your tongue to lick her tongue, her
teeth, and the roof of her mouth. Do not confuse this 'lick' with
a sloppy wet kiss. This 'lick' is very precise. This technique is
meant to be used to pull your partner's mouth slightly closer to
yours and to feel what your partner feels like. Please note, your
partner's mouth should be relatively dry afterwards.


Talking kiss. The talking kiss refers to whispering sweet
nothings to your partner as you kiss them on their lips. In
between each kiss or two, while still invading their space,
sharing thoughts with them about how much you like them, or how
much they turn you on. (i.e. the dress you wore last night, your
eyes, the way you handled the situation at dinner etc.).


Elevator kiss. Sneak a kiss in to your partner when you are on
the elevator and no one else is around.


Shared Candy Kiss. Sharing a candy or tasty morsel of food can be
erotic and yummy!

Peck kiss. Just a fast kiss on the lips, where you literally peck
your partner on the lips.

Enjoy!
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