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Successful Career, Rocky Relationship?


While you’re soaring with the eagles at work, things are about as
low as they can get on the home front. This is a quandary many
people before you have had, but within the situation is an
opportunity to evaluate life.


Often it takes a relationship breakdown of divorce proportions to
force us to stop and take stock of the meaning and direction of
our life.

We also know that “love” is one of the pillars of our life. We
also know it’s not logical to be working as hard and as long as
we do, creating all the money and success imaginable only to end
up alone and unable to share all the fruits with the one you love
the most.


What the successful career, rocky relationship situation provides
you with though is an opportunity to evaluate. Let me explain.

Life is about purpose – life purpose. You, within your life
purpose – above everything else, are striving for happiness and
in order to help you evaluate your situation I have a few
questions for you that takes you right to the heart of the
matter.


Are you happy “with you” in your relationship?
Are you happy with your partner in the relationship?
Do you still want the relationship?
Can the relationship be salvaged? If so, how?

Are you using work to hide from something at home? Children;
in-laws; step-children, the pain of a family death; something
your partner said to you months ago that hurt and you never let
go of it?

Are there pressures at home that could be worked out with a
different strategy i.e. outside help, like coaching or
counseling?

Do you love your work more than your partner?
Do you change into a different person that you don’t like when
you cross the threshold, or when you turn into the street?


Many situations can be worked out if you want to work them out.
In the short term talking or working together can work, but you
must be careful that you don’t just stick a plaster over what
appeared to be a small wound only for it to reopen again later.

One of the ways to avoid this is to strip down your life in order
to rediscover your self. Doing this will make you happy, not just
for an hour or a day, but for life.


People who have been in successful careers, rocky relationships
are using this situation to reevaluate their meaning & direction
in life. They’re doing it and finding they’re now mastering more
than just the career pillar, but the relationship one too.

They are growing into stronger, fitter, happier people. Do you
want to join them?


Best Wishes
Jo Ball (LCA, Dip, NLP Prac)
Are you someone who wants to develop a successful career and
relationship? Jo Ball is developing the next generation of people
who succeed in career and relationships at Unstoppable Life.
These people are clear on their purpose – “Life Purpose”. Join
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