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Anorexia and Bulimia — How Family & Friends Can Help
An eating disorder — What happens now?
When you realize that someone you love may be struggling with
anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa, naturally you want to know
more about it. And because you care, you also want to understand
what they are experiencing and be as supportive as you can
throughout their recovery.
You may already know that anorexia and bulimia are complex and
confusing illnesses. Now that you are past the initial shock of discovery,
you may be experiencing feelings of anxiety, guilt, anger, and
frustration–all understandable reactions. Seeing a loved one suffer
from an eating disorder is very frightening and trying.
We know it's not easy.
What happens now? First, understand that the illness did not develop
overnight, and that recovery will not happen overnight. But also know
there is hope. Recovery is attainable.
Today we know much more
When singer Karen Carpenter died of anorexia in 1985, it was at
a time when many doctors lacked the awareness and education
needed to diagnose and treat victims of eating disorders. Today
we know much more about these illnesses–what causes them,
how to recognize the symptoms earlier, and the steps required for recovery.
Even though you may find it difficult to understand, your loved
one finds security in their eating disorder. To its victims, the
illness is a powerful, though misguided, coping mechanism. But
with correct treatment, enough time, and lots of love, you can
look forward with hope to a day when your loved one will be
able to break the stranglehold of this illness.
You can play a critically important role in the recovery process.
Your knowledge-based, appropriate actions can be a tremendous
source of strength and comfort to your loved one.
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